If you’re single and you’ve just about given up hope on finding that seemingly non-existent soul mate – don’t give up! That elusive, ‘ONE in a million’ partner you’ve been waiting your whole life for probably isn’t anywhere near as hard to find as you may think!
Dear Friend,
If you’re single and you’ve been searching for that special person to spend the rest of your life with, you’ll know how it feels to crave that loving and lasting relationship when it hasn’t come into your life yet.
And you know that reminders of that soul deep desire for your ideal partner never seem to go away.
There’s Valentine’s Day, weddings, engagements, new baby gatherings, birthdays and the holiday season that people enjoy with their partners, and of course, there’s every day! You see couples in love on the street, in the shops, in your neighbourhood, at cafes, at cinemas…they’re everywhere!
It’s so frustrating when you’re single and craving that life-long relationship!
Reminders of romance – and our desire for that perceivably elusive soul mate – are everywhere, every day. We just can’t seem to get away…
…and it seems that our soul mate forever stays away! We don’t know why, we don’t understand why – it just seems to be the way! That one in a million person just seems so hard to find!
And think about the dramas we go through just trying to find that person – in addition to facing the daily reminders of romance everywhere we go!
When we do get into a dating situation, we often find:
- Somebody we just can’t be ourselves with;
- Somebody who we can’t see ourselves going on a second date with;
- Somebody who we just don’t feel chemistry with;
- Somebody who we can’t seem to talk to;
- Somebody we can’t laugh with; or
- Somebody we just don’t feel attracted to!
And then of course, there are the more serious ‘challenges’ to a relationship that can end a relationship or stop one from starting in the first place. Your prospective soul mate may:
- Not be the type your family will approve of;
- Not be the sort of person supportive of what you want in life;
- Not be somebody who aspires to the future you want with them;
- Not be somebody who is compatible with your culture;
- Not be somebody who is compatible with your religion;
- Not be somebody who lives up to your own ‘soul mate’ expectations; and
- Isn’t that one in a million person you have been searching – and waiting – your whole life for.
All this talk of that ‘one in a million’ person! What’s the deal with that – really?
I know amongst single people that term, ‘one in a million’ is bandied around a lot when one refers to their prospective ‘soul mate’.
Often the term is used by singles who have had negative experiences in the relationship game. In other words, relationships that failed to result in the realization that, “Yes, this person is my soul mate!”
Or even relationships that never happen at all.
If you’ve been single for quite some time, I can guess for sure you have referred to your perfect partner as the, ‘one in a million’ person. After all, with the number of dates and relationships some people have experienced, it’s easy for people to think they have a million to one chance of finding their soul mate!
This aside though…
…terms like, ‘million in one person’ make the mission of finding your partner seem so difficult – if not impossible! Referring to a compatible partner as a ‘million in one’ person affirms that it really is as hard as finding one needle among a haystack of one million needles! The reality of the issue though is that the odds aren’t anywhere near as bad – and you’ll discover this in my new e-book titled, “Finding the One in a Million”!
Forget your feelings of despondency and hopelessness right now! My e-book gives you the hope you need and the inspiration you need to get back on the horse!
Finding a partner who will provide you with the love, honesty and lasting relationship you want isn’t a million to one thing! The odds of finding your partner – and happiness - are so much better than this!
As a “Life Coach” specializing in relationships, I spent five years talking to many individuals – just like you – who are searching high and low for that special person.
A seemingly elusive soul mate – a ‘one in a million’ person.
So many of my “soul mate-searching” clients were of this defeatist mindset, having been burnt time and time again by bad dates – or worse – bad relationships. Any wonder they were starting to believe that they had a million to one chance of finding their soul mate!
In no time, something became very clear to me…
…Single people everywhere had to know that the whole ‘one in a million’ thing is a myth! So I wrote, “Finding the One in a Million” – a relationship e-book that tells you that finding a life-long partner – and happiness - isn’t a million in one thing, and it’s certainly not an almost impossible dream!
Earlier, I told you to forget those feelings of despondency and hopelessness that you might have about finding a partner and happiness.
Well now I’m telling you to forget about those traditional personal development books you’ve already read.
That’s because, “Finding the One in a Million” is unlike any relationship book you have ever read.
“Finding the One in a Million” is a relationship e-book with a difference, because it’s actually a novel!
I told you it was different!
And unlike some personal development books, it’s definitely not boring! From the minute you start reading page one, you’ll be compelled to keep reading and reading until you’re done!
So why is that the case?
Firstly, “Finding the One in a Million” centres around a likeable and exciting character who could be any one of us. Manisha is 30-something. She’s a second generation Indian living in the UK, she’s beautiful, she’s smart and she’s very successful in her career as a high flying lawyer. She’s great at everything, except for relationships. After many years of dating, hurtful and disappointing relationships, she’s virtually given up on finding her, “One in a Million”…but not quite!
With her deep yearning for that guy to love her forever, she decides to take an enlightening journey of self discovery – despite the influences of her very culturally devoted, Indian family and her litany of bad relationships!
However…
...that’s not the only reason why, “Finding the One in a Million” is such a compelling, fun and inspiring read!
This is also the case because, “Finding the One in a Million”:
- Is based on personal life experiences: I share with you my own experiences and draw from the real life experiences of many of my personal clients.
- Is written in everyday language: It’s not technical or complex in any way as you will see the second you start reading!
- Goes straight to the heart of YOUR desire: And that’s the desire to find that loving, honest and life-long relationship you have dreamt about, waited your whole life for – and deserve!
- Inspires you to LOVE you: No matter how depressing your single situation may be, and no matter how hopeless it may seem right now.
- Is based upon positive and proven teachings as taught by relationship coaches everywhere: And we’re talking here about techniques and teachings that you can apply not just to relationships, but to any area of your life!
Don’t just take my word for it either that,” Finding the One in a Million” changes lives for the better! Just check out these amazing, real-life testimonials from people who have read it for themselves!
“Mahil’s style is direct, catchy, and immediate – an unembellished prose that slips easily past the palate and sticks to the heart. Her understanding of the human – especially the female – condition is profound. Best of all, “Finding the One in a Million” is a quick, entertaining read. In fact, it should be mandatory reading for singles everywhere.”
- Ellen Tanner Marsh, Best-Selling Author
“I don’t normally read fiction, but this book is very light and refreshing. There’s lots of wisdom here and there – even the ending which suggests multiple possibilities. I see this book as one woman’s journey to enlightenment, from the way the character’s personal wisdom develops from the first page until the last. Very touching and honest…a very well-written novel!”
- S. Graca Da Silva - UK
“This book is ideal for those who wish to gain insights into the tangled world of relationships and cultural norms. Jesvir guides the reader through varying scenarios that inspire self introspection that helps one get closer to the truth about oneself. She also accurately depicts the conflicting dynamics at play for many second generation Indians. This book can certainly be used as a personal development tool! In the end, Jesvir cleverly leaves the reader to find their own answer. As a second generation Indian myself, I find this book very relevant and perhaps it could serve as a guiding light for many second generation Indian women and men.”
- M.L. Chib, Therapist - UK
“One thing I find so interesting about, “Finding the One in a Million” is that the central character is taking self-development seriously and getting in touch with actual coaches. I’m sure many will relate to the dilemmas that Manisha faces. Simple and straightforward as it is, and how helpful that can be when one’s own life seems confusing and options are not clear. Like any good coach, Jesvir helps clarify some options. She just does it in a story form which touches universals. Leaving the ending where it is highlights good coaching too as Manisha has to make her own decision. It’s a novella, yes, and also a great self-coaching tool! I will be suggesting this one to clients!”
- Good Question Coach - Wales
“Jesvir has written an intriguing, exciting and ultimately, very satisfying book around a topic which is so important to people today – finding that one person who will supposedly give us ultimate happiness and with whom one can sail off into the horizon. A must-read book – get this book to increase your chances of finding YOUR ‘one in a million’!”
- Arvind, Author, Speaker, Entrepreneur - UK
Here’s what you can expect to get out of, “Finding the One in a Million”!
Remember, this is much more than just a novel – it’s a personal development novel, written by a relationship coach and based upon real life experiences!
So! Without any further ado, here’s what you can expect to get out of reading my book. You will:
- Understand why that “One in a Million” seems to elude us
- Discover the best way of viewing our past, present and future
- Understand that each and every one of us creates our own destiny
- Learn why knowing what we want is so important
- Learn how to attract what we want into our lives
- Learn how important it is to simply let go of certain things
- Discover how to get deep down inside yourself to understand what “One in a Million” means to you
- Learn why self love is so important – and why it forms the basis of everything
So there you have it! Valuable insight and enlightenment to help you find your, “One in a Million” – and achieve anything you want in your life!
After searching high and low for your soul mate, and doing your very best to block out all reminders of love and romance, don’t you think it’s time you took the first step?
Don’t you think now’s a good time to take that first step towards making that loving, honest and life-long relationship dream a reality – for YOU?
Don’t you think it’s time to get positive about your life, about you and the millions of opportunities that surround you at every minute, of every day?
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